It isn’t news that most men love oral sex. In fact, a lot of them prefer it to the penis-pussy penetration. Learning to give good head isn’t rocket science. A few tricks and you can become the blow job expert. Remember, no two guys are alike so you gotta find out what works best for your man. But these basic tips would give you a very good “head”start.
As a rule, oral sex should mimic the movements of full sex penetration and while it’s called a blow job – there’s no blowing involved! Please don’t make that mistake.
Instead, blow like a pro and take his penis into your mouth, (with plenty of spit) and suck up and down his shaft mimicking the thrusting motion of penetration, taking care not to graze his ‘friend’ with your teeth. Remember when it comes to sucking him off, teeth are never welcome.
One thing men don’t like is mechanical oral sex, performed without passion. He wants to know that you’re enjoying it as much as him, so vary your rhythm, speed and intensity. Try gently caressing his testicles and then try upping the pace for a few strokes. Take him to the edge then bring him back from the brink to get him revved up and eager for more.
Lick, suck and play with his erect penis using your tongue don’t be shy to make eye contact too. To make sure you’re hitting the spot, watch and listen to his reactions. Ask him what he likes. All men are different and he’ll be thrilled that you want to know exactly how to please him.
While performing a blow job you can add chocolate body paint, squirty cream or ice cream then spend time licking and sucking it off, or try a flavoured lubricant – Durex do a good selection.
Otherwise let him come in your mouth and then spit it out. Have tissues on hand to either spit into or mop up any spillage.
Some men like to come onto breasts, bellies or other parts of their partner but make sure you’ve agreed to this first – it’s entirely your choice.
Of course you can swallow too. Whatever floats your boat.