The internet has made many aspects of our lives more convenient. From doing research to shopping, we depend on the net for many of our daily activities. You may not have considered going online in search of random hookups, but the miracle of the internet, when properly used, can even improve your sex life (and not just by providing an endless stream of porn).
Approaching a girl in a bar with the intention of a one-night stand is almost always a losing prospect, so you have to pull out all the stops to seduce her and then deal with the consequences of your one-night-only attitude when she expects a relationship the next morning.
All this trouble can be avoided by arranging casual encounters online, where both your intentions and theirs are crystal clear from the beginning. No, it isn’t just middle-aged swingers that use the internet for hooking up. There are young, attractive people online who want to keep things simple and have some fun.
Be up front
The best part of arranging casual encounters online is that you can come right out and say that you’re looking for sex and nothing but sex. You don’t have to play games and pretend that you’re looking for something that you’re really not interested in. You can get specific here too. Want to explore a certain fetish or fantasy? Make this clear in your profile or when you start talking to a potential sex partner. In other circumstances you’d have to work up to sharing your deepest, darkest fantasies, but online you can be totally up front about them.
Show each other photos;
Many people who are looking for casual sex want to keep things as discreet as possible. They don’t want their family members, friends or work associates to find out what they’re into. As a result, they may be hesitant to share photos of themselves online, but in this context, it is pretty much essential to get an idea of whether or not the person you’re talking to is attractive to you. You’ll waste a lot of time if you wait until the first meeting to see what they look like. You don’t have to put photos up on your public profile if it really makes you uncomfortable, but you should at least have them available to send to people you’re interested in. Make sure they are real and recent, and insist upon getting the same from anyone you contact.