How To Arrange Casual Sexual Encounters Online

The internet has made many aspects of our lives more convenient. From doing research to shopping, we depend on the net for many of our daily activities. You may not have considered going online in search of random hookups, but the miracle of the internet, when properly used, can even improve your sex life (and not just by providing an endless stream of porn).

Approaching a girl in a bar with the intention of a one-night stand is almost always a losing prospect, so you have to pull out all the stops to seduce her and then deal with the consequences of your one-night-only attitude when she expects a relationship the next morning.

All this trouble can be avoided by arranging casual encounters online, where both your intentions and theirs are crystal clear from the beginning. No, it isn’t just middle-aged swingers that use the internet for hooking up. There are young, attractive people online who want to keep things simple and have some fun.

Be up front

The best part of arranging casual encounters online is that you can come right out and say that you’re looking for sex and nothing but sex. You don’t have to play games and pretend that you’re looking for something that you’re really not interested in. You can get specific here too. Want to explore a certain fetish or fantasy? Make this clear in your profile or when you start talking to a potential sex partner. In other circumstances you’d have to work up to sharing your deepest, darkest fantasies, but online you can be totally up front about them.

Show each other photos;

Many people who are looking for casual sex want to keep things as discreet as possible. They don’t want their family members, friends or work associates to find out what they’re into. As a result, they may be hesitant to share photos of themselves online, but in this context, it is pretty much essential to get an idea of whether or not the person you’re talking to is attractive to you. You’ll waste a lot of time if you wait until the first meeting to see what they look like. You don’t have to put photos up on your public profile if it really makes you uncomfortable, but you should at least have them available to send to people you’re interested in. Make sure they are real and recent, and insist upon getting the same from anyone you contact.

Have an opt-out agreement;
Before arranging casual encounters online, you should makes an agreement that, upon meeting, either person has the right to opt out of the encounter immediately without having to state a reason. This avoids hurting anyone’s feelings and having to go through with a tryst you aren’t really into. You may hit it off great online, but when you meet face-to-face, sometimes the chemistry just isn’t there. Having a pre-arranged “get out of jail free” card can come in handy in these situations.
Meet in public;
Pick a safe, public place for your first meeting with your prospective tryst. You may be tempted to jump right into it and meet in a hotel room or at one of your homes, but it is probably a good idea when arranging casual encounters online to introduce yourselves on more neutral ground first. Don’t forget that you may want to use your opt-out, and that will be a lot more awkward if the room is already paid for. You can always head straight to the hotel if she turns out to be exactly what you expected.
Be safe;
It should go without saying that, when arranging casual encounters online, safety comes first, especially when it comes to being with a virtual stranger. There is no way you can know for sure what their STI status is, so always show up with the proper protection. With the right precautions, your online hookup can have a hot and happy ending.

 

Askmen

3 comments on “How To Arrange Casual Sexual Encounters Online

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s