In long-term relationships, it’s easy to settle into a routine with your partner that, while may be comfortable, can make your sex life a tad mundane. However, by shaking it up and using these sex tips, you can revive the spark that first brought you two together.
Here are a few ideas to consider.
Flirt with each other
Make a habit of sending playful, sexy messages to him throughout the day. Make him salivate with anticipation by telling him what you’re wearing and what you want to do to him later.
Set the mood
Don’t underestimate the power of lighting a few candles. Make sure your bedroom is sexy and doesn’t have toys littering it. And turn off the tv.
Agree to place a ban on sex for a certain length of time and just kiss and focus on foreplay. Abstaining from sex has the added benefit of charging up both of your libidos.
Don’t wear any underwear and let him find out.
Watch an erotic film together
It doesn’t have to be porn for it to be sexy. Just something to get your heart-rate up. In a good way.
Play an adult game
Nothing like a little game to set the playful, yet erotic mood for great sex.
Discover a new position
Try a new position as often as you can..
Share your fantasies
A little role-playing can be fun and it doesn’t have to be limited to the bedroom. Start the fun before you even get home by meeting at a bar and pretending you just met.
Get out of the bedroom
Sometimes a change of locale is all that’s needed to rev up the action. Try having sex somewhere unexpected; just be careful not to get caught!
If any of the ideas makes you feel nervous, then you should definitely try it first. The great part of being with someone for an extended period of time is that you can fully trust and feel safe with him, so don’t hesitate to try something out of your normal comfort zone, especially if it means revving your sex life up!