‘It seems that everywhere we look nowadays, we’re faced with new acrobatic sexual positions that might throw our backs out and have women lying in some bizarre position with their ankles pinned to their ears.
Today, however, we will revert back to the most famous position in the world — the good ol’ yummy missionary position. But not the amateurish position that we all focused on when we first tumbled into the bush. No. There will be twists and turns added to what could be considered a boring and uninventive position.
The reason most women love this position is because it requires partners to face one another and hopefully stare into each other’s eyes while reaching their peak. And the fact that your two bodies are basically intertwined within each other just adds another element of orgasmic intrigue.
The missionary position allows for easy entry, deep penetration and although women are placed in a passive role (hence “missionary”), it is one of the more enjoyable positions for couples who take pleasure in intimacy.
Try the following add-ons with your missionary position the next time around and you’ll feel a huge difference (as will she).
Lift Those Legs
Have your lady lift and bend her legs a little, resting her feet flat on the mattress. Most women find this position much more comfortable than the usual missionary. It allows for much greater access to the volatile vagina, and both partners will enjoy more intense stimulation.
And if the woman rests her feet on her partner’s buttocks, the good times will definitely be rolling. Because it adds a pleasant feeling for a woman as her partner’s pubic bone gently stimulates her clitoris, prepare yourself for a back scratching evening.
Although this suggestion is only a tiny movement away from the traditional position, this simple change will have effects on the way you both feel — inside and out.
Over The Shoulders
Ahh, putting your lover’s legs over both your shoulders — one of life’s little pleasures. This position allows men to attain the deepest possible penetration. But be careful: With this position, it’s possible to get in too deep, which can cause her pain.
Unless you’re making love to a blow up doll, I strongly recommend that you take cues from your partner and move slowly. If she starts shouting deeper, harder, then you have the leeway needed to try and make your penis come up the back of her throat.
Lock Is Key
For deeper penetration, have your lady raise her legs higher and lock them around you (it already sounds good, huh?). The higher she raises her legs, the deeper the penetration, and boy do we love to penetrate.
If your woman has the flexibility of a contortionist and can lock her legs around you, then she can add to your leverage by squeezing you close to her or even just holding you with her thighs.
There’s one slight drawback, however. Although most guys find having their partner’s legs wrapped around them to be a real turn on, this position may result in quick orgasms. That’s why I leave this position until the end, after about seven hours (okay, okay, seven minutes).
Close Those Legs!
Although most couples enjoy the missionary position with the woman’s legs spread apart, this is not necessarily mandatory. If a woman keeps her legs together, then added stimulation and exceptional sensations will likely be the result. When her legs are closed, the vagina tightens around your penis, ensuing more intense stimulation for both of you.
This position also forces you to enter her from a sharper angle towards the clitoris— and we all know how many “clitorally” inclined women are out there, right? Although you can also close your legs, I don’t recommend it because you will end up putting all your weight on her. And if she weighs 100 pounds less than you, enjoying the sex will be the last of her concerns.
Get On Your Knees, Boy
The adventurous type, are you? Get your woman to lie on the bed while you kneel and sit on your ankles, between her thighs. Grabs her thighs and bring her to you. Her bottom and lower back should be elevated while her ankles or lower legs will rest on your shoulders.
To make her more comfortable, you can place a pillow under her lower back. In this position, your woman can massage her clitoris with her fingers (which is always a pleasure to watch), or you can apply clitoral pressure with your hands. As well, you can massage her stomach, hips, thighs… the key is to be creative.
The best part of this position? Well, you can watch yourself going in and out of her. I don’t know about the rest of you, but just thinking about that is making me break a sweat. Keep in mind that this position is not designed for rapid lovemaking, but rather a slow and intimate session.
That Tantric Feeling
Tantric sex literature introduced this position, and although it’s not easy to perfect, I have the utmost confidence in my readers. Kneel down and sit on your ankles, close to her beautiful butt. Hoist both of her legs onto one of your shoulders. Let her guide you inside her and before you know it, you’ll find yourselves in a hot, sticky, delicious mess.
Because the penis ultimately massages the side wall of the vagina — which usually doesn’t get much attention — she will find this quite pleasurable. If you want to massage the opposite wall of her vagina, then just shift her legs to the other shoulder.
So you see, if you just add some little quirks to the missionary position, you’ll find that your woman will suddenly find sex not only more enjoyable, but also quite varied.
Until next time, don’t be afraid to be regarded as a missionary man.